Sexological Bodyworkers and Somatic Sex Educators in schools throughout the world begin their professional certification training with this simple and brilliant video explaining how individuals learn sex. You have to practice with yourself and you have to practice with others. The videos on OrgasmicYoga.com demonstrate hundreds of sexual skills you might choose to practice. Maybe watch twice (to become a better lover.)

Taoist teacher, Loren Johnson, demonstrates moving sexual excitement from the genitals into the rest of the body. With a tennis ball or the heel of your foot, apply pressure to the perineum, midway between the scrotum and anus. Pump the sexual aliveness through your body by clenching and relaxing the muscles of pelvic floor. This practice is called the Power Lock or the Big Draw.  Loren Johnson is a certified teacher in the Mantak Chia Taoist tradition. He teaches two classes of Taoist sexual practices at OrgasmicYoga.com:  Palm Springs Tantric Yoga and Sexual Kung Fu: www.orgasmicyoga.com/sexual-kung-fu.