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Hands-Free Master Sessions

What might Embodied Porn Watching look like after six sessions? After eleven sessions? Enjoy and marvel at these two Embodied Porn Watching sessions. Robin also filmed an introductory video and both Robin and Jack filmed reflection videos after finishing their practice sessions. These two had a lot of fun masturbating hands-free. We wish the same for you.

Hands-free arousal offers a new way of experiencing sex by thrusting into an anchored Fleshlight or onto a vibrator. This hands-free practice helps to interrupt muscle tension in the arms and upper torso, enabling feelings of freedom, openness and ease of breathing. Hands-free does not mean stop using your hands. Rather, the hands, liberated from genital stimulation, become even more engaged – in massaging and pleasuring your body. Hands-free arousal has the added benefit of improving your hip movements and thrusting skills in lovemaking.

Rob*in Plans Their Session4:00 min

Rob*in introduces us to their plans for their sixth solo session. This will be their first hands-free session, making use of an anchored vibrator. Rob*in plans to make use of their "free" hands to massage their tense shoulders. They also wish to remember their partner during the session by wearing their partner's shirt. Rob*in commits to telling us during their session each time they become distracted.

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Rob*in’s First Hands Free Session15:56 min

Several times during their session, Rob*in scans their body, noting their level of embodiment on a scale of 1 to 10, where ten is fully embodied. They also regularly check their level of arousal on a scale of 1 to 10. They speak these levels aloud. After a few minutes of hands-free vibration, Rob*in laughs and says, "I really love this. Gives me so much freedom." This hands-free practice takes Rob*in into a remarkable state of delight, with lots of laughter. Check out what happens in the last three minutes of the practice when Rob*in turns the vibrator on to "high."

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Rob*in Feels the Aliveness4:43 min

Rob*in is "energized" and" joyful" as they reflect on their session. Taking some time at the end of each session promotes integration and learning.

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Jack’s Breakthrough Session 111:05:09 hr

I recommend that you follow Jack's levels of arousal in this hour-long session. In an early coaching session, I suggested that Jack pay attention to the pleasure of excitement (an increase in neural firings) and the pleasure of bliss (a decrease in neural firings.) Pleasure is made up of both excitement and bliss.

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Jack’s Journal 1112:48 min

Jack: "I have never had an orgasm like that in my life." Jack: "I felt like something really opened up. It was simple. There weren't a lot of distractions. I felt clarity. I could have gone on for a long time in that space." Jack: "Excitement takes me out of my body. Bliss/joy brings me back." Excitement involves an increase in neural firing. Bliss involves a decrease in neural firing. Pleasure is the interplay of excitement and bliss. Embodied porn watching for Jack has been about learning to pay attention to bliss. Note how different Jack is in bliss from when he is excited. Pendulum is about placing attention on the porn and then on body sensation. In this session "the two merged."

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