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Erotic Nothingness

A Buddhist influenced massage meditation with Peter Denger, CSB (66 minutes)

Peter Denger, a meditator for thirty-five years, demonstrates this mindfulness massage twice—once on a woman and once on a man. There is nothing for the receiver to do except to be aware. The receiver is asked be attentive to their sensations without attaching to them. This Orgasmic Yoga practice has been influenced by Buddhist Insight meditation.

You will learn:

• An erotic massage meditation
• Single point of attention stroke for a woman
• Several single point of attention strokes for a man
• To enjoy having no goal–nothingness
• The art of erotic mindfulness
• To touch and be touched slowly
• To allow sex to have its way with you.

Erotic Nothingness Massage for a Woman23:45 min

With words and touch, Peter guides Zia Marie into an erotic meditation. He invites her to be aware of sounds, sensations, body feelings, and thoughts but not to attach to any of them. “Just let them come and go.” Embodied meditation teacher Reginald Ray describes the realm of this form of bodywork: “Here, finally, we arrive at our most basic experience of being alive: just the empty, open space of our awareness. When we journey down into the body, to its deepest levels, when we extend our awareness from subtlety to greater subtlety, we eventually arrive at the completely open domain of empty space, our basic body, our basic nature.” Touching Enlightenment, p. 194.

Allowing Sensation to Happen6:59 min

Zia Marie says, “This Orgasmic Yoga meditation is the next step for me on my erotic spiritual path. Doing this massage grows neural pathways that create happiness and well-being. In other erotic massages, I learned to spread the energy throughout my body. In this erotic meditation, I just allow the sensation to happen without doing anything" “My main strategy for getting more of this in my life is exchanging massage sessions with my partner.”

Erotic Nothingness Massage for a Man23:50 min

Peter invites Dragon to be aware of sounds, sensations, body feelings, and thoughts but not to attach to any of them. Dragon is an experienced somatic meditator. He knows how to allow the sensations and thoughts to be without attaching to them. Reginald Ray: “Just carry out the practice with an open mind and open heart, but let go of any attempts to achieve anything. We are instructed not to set up any conceptual ideal, such as that of peace or stillness. We are simply attending to the body, with gentleness and curiosity, to see what it brings.” Touching Enlightenment, p. 180.

Single Point of Attention2:59 min

Dragon Sundancer says, "What makes this massage practice different from other erotic massages is the single point of attention. Other massages involve way more activity. I see this practice as a tool for evolving my relationship, my ability to love and to be loved. It is crucial that the participants create a space where the only goal is to be present."

Erotic Nothingness is Meditation + Bodywork12:28 min

Peter developed this Erotic Nothingness massage by bringing his 35 years of mediation practice into his study of Tantric massage and Sexological Bodywork. He says the core of this work is mindfulness, observing sensations and thoughts in your body.