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The Best of Vulva Massage

Bringing the best of sixteen different erotic massage videos, this anthology offers the full spectrum of vulva touch: lovemaking with a partner, self-loving, ritual healing, genital therapy, sex coaching, female ejaculation and good old-fashioned pleasuring with Betty Dodson, Jaiya, Annie Sprinkle and more.

The Best of Penis Massage

Learn how to massage the penis from playful, creative men and women liberated from sexual habit. Includes: lovemaking with a partner, masturbation, erotic initiation, sex coaching, exploring altered states, and good old-fashioned pleasuring.

Soft Cock Erotic Massage

Why have so few men experienced the wonders of soft cock erotic massage? Skilled erotic bodyworkers offer you a master class in giving and receiving more than twenty ways to touch a soft penis. Take your man into orgasmic bliss with easy to learn erotic massage skills.

Anal Massage on a Man

Explore the pleasures of anal eroticism, including how to contact the prostate: the male G spot. Learn the art of giving an external anal massage, penetrating gracefully, and replacing negative feelings and attitudes toward the anus and rectum with positive ones. These pleasures are not just for gay men.

Female Genital Massage

Annie Sprinkle promises that with this massage video, you can satisfy a woman to her core ... every time! In Fire in the Valley, you will learn from three erotically-gifted women as they receive thirty different erotic massage strokes on their erectile tissues - including the clitoris, labia, g-spot and vagina.

Male Genital Massage

This is the ultimate hand job lesson, providing live-action instruction on how to pleasure a man's penis. Learn the joys of giving and receiving thirty genital massage strokes that often produce a transformative full-bodied orgasm. Includes instruction on the Big Draw, a pleasurable alternative to ejaculation.

Anal Massage on a Woman

Explore the pleasures of anal eroticism. Learn the art of giving an external anal massage, of penetrating gracefully and of totaling eliminating anal pain. These anal massage lessons instruct you in giving a woman simultaneous genital and anal stimulation.

Fabulous Fellatio – Pleasuring with Mouth and Touch

One of the world's best sex educators, Jaiya, offers the ultimate in blow job lessons. Fellate your lover and bring yourself full body pleasure using simple and intimate techniques. Invaluable for new couples seeking more sensual lovemaking and for older couples looking to spark their sex life.

femme à femme – Erotic Massage

Five sensuous women teach us a Swedish, Esalen and Tantric style massage for the female body. The strokes you will learn are gentle, flowing, and nurturing. This massage approaches the whole body as an erogenous zone. This massage feels great on both female and male bodies.

Connected Cunnilingus – Pleasuring with Mouth and Touch

Jaiya takes you on a journey beyond mundane oral sex into delightful choreographies that integrate the mouth and hands. The author of Blow Each Other Away is the leading sexologist teaching couples the art of cunnilingus.


Certified Sexological Bodyworkers are professional somatic sex educators who teach through body-based exercises and experiences. Sexological Bodywork sessions can have a variety of intentions and expressions. In the videos here, you will see sessions where the goal is sustained sexual arousal involving movement and conscious breathing. Another demonstrates working with gender non-conforming bodies. In all of these sessions, you will see how constant communication is extremely important.

Lovers Getting Started with Erotic Massage

Destin and Anastasia offer you a class in how they brought erotic massage into their relationship. They share with you the happy challenges that arise through this practice. Destin and Anastasia demonstrate their favorite cock and vulva massage strokes.

Mapping: Practicing “Placement of Attention”

Anal and Vaginal Mapping are contemplative touch practices that bring awareness and sensation to the tissues of the anus and vagina. This practice helps us to train our placement of attention. Mapping involves applying finger pressure in a focused, structured way to specific points on the body. Every move of the mapper's finger is guided by the receiver. How long a point is held and with how much pressure is decided by the receiver in each moment.

Jaiya’s Erotic Touch for Sexual Positions

Jaiya is a Sexological Bodyworker who believes that both men and women can use their hands more creatively during intercourse. What do you do with your hands during sex? Three sensuous couples demonstrate over thirty techniques to enhance full body arousal and deep intimate connection. 

Erotic Massage Dancing

Erotic Massage Dancing is a new modality developed within the profession of Sexological Bodywork to teach erotic self-regulation. Erotic Massage Dancing involves you, the receiver, “dancing” with your sexual arousal while on a massage table. You guide the massage, giving specific instructions throughout to the giver. You focus your attention within your own body while consciously playing with movement, breath, sound and self- touch. This embodiment practice, also called “active receiving,” supports learning erotic self-regulation.

Jaiya’s Genital Massage for People with Vulvas

Join Jaiya as she takes you on a journey into the pleasures of giving genital massage. With step-by-step instruction and explicit close ups, Jaiya shows you how to tenderly touch the clitoris, labia, vestibular bulbs and g-spot.