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Erotic Massage Dancing

Erotic Massage Dancing

Erotic Massage Dancing

Erotic Massage Dancing involves you, the receiver, "dancing" with your sexual arousal while on a massage table. You guide the massage, giving specific instructions throughout to the giver.  You focus attention within your own body while consciously playing with movement, breath, sound and self- touch. This embodiment practice, also called “active receiving,” supports learning erotic self-regulation.  

Although you may give guidance to your masseur, your sessions should include as little talking as possible. Your placement of attention is within your own moving and breathing body. Remember, this is not about lovemaking, partner engagement, or romance. This dancing experience allows you to consciously access, play with, and even direct profound ecstatic and erotic states.  Erotic Massage Dancing is about celebrating erotic embodiment.  

If the receiver becomes distracted and stops dancing, the giver invites them back into mindfulness. This might involve reminding the receiver to breathe or move. "Where is your breath?" "Where is your movement?" The giver sometimes reminds the receiver of the intention stated at the beginning of the session. If the attempts to help the receiver remain present are not successful, the giver may choose to stop touching. Distracted receivers almost always respond to the withholding of erotic touch.
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Video Teachings

Anastasia Becomes Her Orgasm

Anastasia Becomes Her Orgasm

38:02 min.

Erotic Massage Dancing is a practice. In this session, Anastasia is responsible for her own experience. She guides Destin’s touch and plays with her own breath and movement.  At times, she unleashes her voice.

Anastasia’s practice allows her to access various somatic states. One very high state is laughing and crying at the same time.

She becomes her orgasm.

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Martin Places His Attention Within

Martin Places His Attention Within

9:01 min.

This active receiving practice often starts before arousal. Martin plays with various breathing patterns and movements and guides Lucie’s touch. This video is part of a longer session.

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Hard Cock Dancing

Hard Cock Dancing

12:11 min.

Frans Trepels chooses to actively receive erotic touch from Jordi Oller. Activing receiving, also called “erotic massage dancing,” involves the “receiver” dancing their arousal. Frans uses movement, breath, and sound to integrate the arousal into his body and life. He also guides Jordi’s touch.

Frans asks for prostate massage during his dance. After a few minutes of prostate massage, Frans asks, “Can you discover the edges.” Frans guides Jordi prostate touch by imagining the prostate as a clock. Frans asks for touch a 4 o’clock and other times.

At the end of the session, Frans “cools down” his alive body. He tells Jordi that the erotic massage dancing session could have gone on for hours.

Frans and Jordi are both Tantra teachers, Sexological Bodyworkers, and erotic yoga instructors who have several other videos on this site. Frans lives in The Netherlands. Jordi lives in Spain. Find out more about Frans Trepels and his classes here: www.onestudio.nl. And learn about Jordi Oller and his classes here: www.sexcoachtantra.com/en.

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Male Multiple Orgasms

Male Multiple Orgasms

10:00 min.

Sex educator Moshe Weizman says it is crucial for men to pay attention during the thirty seconds just before the "point of no return" on our journey towards orgasm.  He says skillful relaxation at this time allows men to experience an orgasm without ejaculation.  For this to happen, we have to be very present.  Being present to our sexual arousal can be learned through erotic practice.

The last few minutes of this video show Moshe receiving a Sexological Bodywork session from his friend Jennifer.  He requests that her touch help him be aware of his moments of flowing and his moments of pushing as he becomes more aroused.  His attention is never focused on Jennifer. This is not lovemaking.  This is a session where Moshe is placing his attention on his sexual arousal, so he can regulate his levels of pleasure. He has achieved this skill from hundreds (perhaps thousands) of practice sessions and lovemaking sessions.  Jennifer’s role is not to arouse him but to help him become more aware of what is happening in his body.  We could all use a Jennifer or two.  

This video clip is the first ten minutes of Moshe's The Joy of Multiple Orgasms for Men – Three Keys to Reach Full-Body Orgasms without Ejaculation.  The full instructional film is available on Moshe’s website: www.MultiOrgasmCoaching.com. Moshe is a somatic sex educator, offering assistance to both men and women who wish to explore more deeply the pleasures of their bodies.     

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Dance Lessons

Dance Lessons

5:43 min.

Frans Trepels demonstrates seven movements he uses during his erotic massage dancing.  These movements, along with breath, sound and touch, help him go deeper into integrating sexual arousal into his body, his relationships and his life. Jiggling from the heels, pelvic rocking, bouncing, fire breath stretch, pelvic muscle clench, twisting, shaking and kicking, and self-touching.  Learn more about Frans at www.onestudio.nl.

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Fragments from an Anal Mapping Session

Fragments from an Anal Mapping Session

16:37 min.

Anal Mapping is a contemplative touch practice that brings awareness and sensation to the tissues of the anal canal and rectum. This practice trains our placement of attention.

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Bottom Bliss- A Sexological Bodywork Session

Bottom Bliss- A Sexological Bodywork Session

44:09 min.

Frans Trepels writes:
My intention was to encourage the lad to move and breath while being massaged—to dance his sexual arousal.  I also wanted him to let me know how he likes to be touched and what would increase his pleasure.
 
I usually start Sexological Bodywork sessions by getting a client into their body and out of their mind, into feelings and out of the thinking mind.   So I had a wake-up-the-body structure in my mind.  We started by sitting down with closed eyes focusing on the breath and then did  some yoga stretches and partner yoga. I introduced the lad to moving in rhythm with his breathing.  We then continued with a relaxing back massage on the table.  And then he turned over for the integrating front/genital massage.

He became actively involved in the massage through breathing, moving and self-touch.  At the end, his feeling, thinking and body were integrated.  He said, “I want to fly away.”  He felt light, liberated and blissful.  He recognized this feeling from when he gets fucked.  He calls the feeling  “bottom bliss.”

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The Amsterdam Session- Anal Mapping

The Amsterdam Session- Anal Mapping

43:40 min.

Feelings of aliveness and numbness often co-exist in the anal area. What are the consequences of diminished anal sensations? Forgetting our anal area severely limits our capacity for sexual pleasure. Anal numbness can spread throughout our pelvic area, desensitizing our genitals.  

Anal mapping brings awareness and wakes up forgotten tissue.  Notice the constant communication between Sadhu, the mapper, and Frans, the client being touched. The intention of the speaking is to focus the client’s attention on specific tissues of the anus, prostate and coccyx. 

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Communicating Pleasure

Communicating Pleasure

44:56 min.

This Sexological Bodywork session demonstrates the importance of ongoing communication between the practitioner and the client. Frans first communicates with Manuel by video three weeks before the actual session, giving him “almost daily” homework assignments in preparation for their meeting.
Note that Frans will not touch Manuel until he gets explicit direction from the lad. “Please give me guidance, so you get what you want. How do you want me to touch you?”  Note that Frans often thanks Manuel for his guidance.  Learn more about Frans at www.onestudio.nl.

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Sexological Bodyworking

Sexological Bodyworking

3:26 min.

Moshe is receiving a Sexological Bodywork session from his friend Jennifer.  He requests that her touch help him be aware of his moments of flowing and his moments of pushing as he becomes more aroused.  His attention is never focused on Jennifer. This is not lovemaking.  This is a session where Moshe is placing his attention on his sexual arousal, so he can regulate his levels of pleasure. He has achieved this skill from hundreds (perhaps thousands) of practice sessions and lovemaking sessions.  Jennifer’s role is not to arouse him but to help him become more aware of what is happening in his body.  We could all use a Jennifer or two.  

This video clip is from Moshe's The Joy of Multiple Orgasms for Men – Three Keys to Reach Full-Body Orgasms without Ejaculation. The full instructional film is available on Moshe’s website: www.MultiOrgasmCoaching.com. Moshe is a somatic sex educator, offering assistance to both men and women who wish to explore more deeply the pleasures of their bodies.  Jennifer's website is sheflows.de. Both Moshe and Jennifer live in Berlin. 

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