Women's Solo Erotic Practice

A Solo Sex Session with Letta Neely  (26 minutes)

You are invited to be inspired by poet Letta Neely sharing one of her solo touch sessions with us.  She begins slow and easy, caressing her whole body.  “Learn your body,” she says in her soundtrack poem. As her session evolves, she focuses more on arousal and excitement.  Letta’s chant as she masturbates calls upon herself to “open to the goddess inside.” Her message to us all as we masturbate, “Liberate yourself.” more

The clitoris has the highest concentration of nerve endings on a woman's body, so it is understandable that some women only stimulate their clitoris when they masturbate. Some women using their hands or vibrators stimulate their clitorises and circulate the sexual excitement throughout their bodies with movement, breath, sound and touch. Other women begin by waking up their whole bodies before bringing their attention to their genitals. There are so many ways to pleasure our bodies. There is much to be learned from witnessing others pleasuring themselves.

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Annie Sprinkle and her partner Beth Stephens are eco-sexuals. They’ve married the Earth many times. Their core practice is making love to the earth. They have 25 suggestions for anyone interested in becoming an eco-sexual practitioner.

• Tell the Earth, “I love you. I cant live without you.”
• You may feel embarrassed to be lovers with the Earth – Let it go.
• Spend time with her.
• Ask her what she likes, and needs – then try to give it to her.
• Massage the Earth with your feet.
• Admire her views often.
• Circulate erotic energy with her.
• Smell her.
• Taste her.
• Touch all her all over.
• Hug and stroke her trees.
• Talk dirty to her plant.
• Swim naked in her water.
• Lay on top of her, or let her get on top.
• Do a nude dance for her.
• Sing to her.
• Kiss and lick her.
• Bury parts of your body deep inside her soil.
• Plant your seeds in her.
• Love her unconditionally even when she’s angry or cruel.
• Keep her clean. Please recycle.
• Work for peace. Bombs hurt.
• If you see her being abused, raped or exploited, protect her as best you can.
• Protect her mountains, waters and skies.
• Vow to love, honor and cherish the Earth – until death brings you closer together forever.

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This practice involves a placement of attention on the urethral sponge, coupled with stimulation and pressure from a finger or toy. This can be a new experience for many women. At the beginning of the practice, some women experience numbness or even pain. But with continued exploration and patience, tissues reawaken and pleasure become possible. Deborah Sundahl, the major teacher of female ejaculation, tells of several months of practice before she even felt pleasure in her urethral sponge area. more