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Erotic Massage Dancing

Erotic Massage Dancing

Erotic Massage Dancing

Erotic Massage Dancing involves you, the receiver, "dancing" with your sexual arousal while on a massage table. You guide the massage, giving specific instructions throughout to the giver.  You focus attention within your own body while consciously playing with movement, breath, sound and self- touch. This embodiment practice, also called “active receiving,” supports learning erotic self-regulation.  

Although you may give guidance to your masseur, your sessions should include as little talking as possible. Your placement of attention is within your own moving and breathing body. Remember, this is not about lovemaking, partner engagement, or romance. This dancing experience allows you to consciously access, play with, and even direct profound ecstatic and erotic states.  Erotic Massage Dancing is about celebrating erotic embodiment.  

If the receiver becomes distracted and stops dancing, the giver invites them back into mindfulness. This might involve reminding the receiver to breathe or move. "Where is your breath?" "Where is your movement?" The giver sometimes reminds the receiver of the intention stated at the beginning of the session. If the attempts to help the receiver remain present are not successful, the giver may choose to stop touching. Distracted receivers almost always respond to the withholding of erotic touch.
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Video Teachings

Anastasia Becomes Her Orgasm

Anastasia Becomes Her Orgasm

38:02 min.

Erotic Massage Dancing is a practice. In this session, Anastasia is responsible for her own experience. She guides Destin’s touch and plays with her own breath and movement.  At times, she unleashes her voice.

Anastasia’s practice allows her to access various somatic states. One very high state is laughing and crying at the same time.

She becomes her orgasm.

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Martin Places His Attention Within

Martin Places His Attention Within

9:01 min.

This active receiving practice often starts before arousal. Martin plays with various breathing patterns and movements and guides Lucie’s touch. This video is part of a longer session.

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Hard Cock Dancing

Hard Cock Dancing

12:11 min.

Frans Trepels chooses to actively receive erotic touch from Jordi Oller. Activing receiving, also called “erotic massage dancing,” involves the “receiver” dancing their arousal. Frans uses movement, breath, and sound to integrate the arousal into his body and life. He also guides Jordi’s touch.

Frans asks for prostate massage during his dance. After a few minutes of prostate massage, Frans asks, “Can you discover the edges.” Frans guides Jordi prostate touch by imagining the prostate as a clock. Frans asks for touch a 4 o’clock and other times.

At the end of the session, Frans “cools down” his alive body. He tells Jordi that the erotic massage dancing session could have gone on for hours.

Frans and Jordi are both Tantra teachers, Sexological Bodyworkers, and erotic yoga instructors who have several other videos on this site. Frans lives in The Netherlands. Jordi lives in Spain. Find out more about Frans Trepels and his classes here: www.onestudio.nl. And learn about Jordi Oller and his classes here: www.sexcoachtantra.com/en.

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