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Lovers getting started with Erotic Massage

Lovers getting started with Erotic Massage

Lovers getting started with Erotic Massage

All forms of Orgasmic Yoga for Lovers taught at the OYI involve a commitment to an ongoing series of co-created, erotic massage sessions. These practice sessions allow lovers to engage each other as embodied, erotic beings. The core of this practice involves lovers giving and receiving touch while consciously breathing. This separation of giving and receiving opens the possibility for erotic trance states and new ways of relating as a couple.


Humans learn sex through self-directed conscious practice over time. In Orgasmic Yoga for Lovers, the individuals design how their touch sessions can expand their erotic capacities. The video demonstrations at OYI are to help you and your lover develop your own creative practice sessions. We recommend starting with a commitment to each other of five erotic touch sessions.

Anastasia and Destin are sex educators who have recognized a need for a regular practice of erotic massage in their relationship.

You will see Anastasia and Destin's first three practice sessions together. The first massage session (ending with Sounds of Pleasure, Part II) documents Anastasia's remarkable sexual response to Destin's touch. In the second session (Four Hands on Destin) , both Anastasia and Destin caress and arouse Destin. The third session (Woman on Top) involves Anastasia working on Destin from up on the massage table.

Together, these lovers offer you a class in how to begin an erotic massage practice. They share with you the challenges that came up in their relationship through this practice. Learn from Destin and Anastasia by witnessing and modeling their receiving and giving erotic touch.

This video class contains full nudity as well as a special video section where Destin and Anastasia demonstrate their favorite ways to touch each other's genitals. (87 minutes of video)

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Video Teachings

Introducing the Lovers, Destin and Anastasia

Introducing the Lovers, Destin and Anastasia

2:41 min.

After two years in a relationship, Anastasia and Destin commit to beginning a regular Orgasmic Yoga touch practice.  AND THEY AGREE TO BE FILMED as they begin their lovemaking-with-hands practice. 

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Preparing and  Waking the Body Erotic

Preparing and Waking the Body Erotic

5:03 min.

These partner stretches feel great and are fun! Stretching helps the lovers shift their awareness back their own bodies. Stretch along with Anastasia and Destin.

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The Beginning: Undressing and Caressing

The Beginning: Undressing and Caressing

2:19 min.

To begin this massage, the lovers undress each other playfully and tenderly. Receiving massage is a practice, as is giving. This first practice session is about Anastasia. She is responsible for her own experience by guiding Destin's touch and through her own breathing and movement. She goes way beyond Destin's touch in giving herself a full body workout.

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What She Likes

What She Likes

0:50 min.

Anastasia guides Destin's pressure and speed. She unleashes her voice.

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Getting It Wrong and Getting It Right

Getting It Wrong and Getting It Right

1:24 min.

Destin says practice sessions have changed the way they communicate for the better.  He rocks Anastasia's world from her mons and calms her with pussy petting.

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Giving and Receiving Permission

Giving and Receiving Permission

3:04 min.

Destin learns how to accept Anastasia's guidance as he explore his the role as 'giver.' "I want to be able to please her. I want to be able to make her feel good. I will have a lot easier job with that if I'm not guessing and fumbling around."

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Grab My Tit-and Beyond

Grab My Tit-and Beyond

2:43 min.

Anastasia is dancing on the table. Her practice involves breathing, stretching, sound and emotional release. Her practice takes her into various somatic states. A very awakened state is when she laughs and cries at the same time.

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Open Wider-Anastasia's Ecstasy

Open Wider-Anastasia's Ecstasy

4:39 min.

Anastasia's emotional release allows her to place her attention on her own embodied self. She is in bliss.

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Anastasia's Euphoria

Anastasia's Euphoria

4:10 min.

Pleasure is made up of both excitement and enjoyment. Anastasia is definitely in the enjoyment state. Outside, looking in, Destin patiently massages her vulva.

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Higher and Higher

Higher and Higher

4:24 min.

Anastasia allows herself more and more excitement. Each practice session expands her capacity. This is one function of practice. You get better at what you are doing. Destin heightens her experience with stimulation of her G-spot.

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Sounds of Pleasure, Part 1

Sounds of Pleasure, Part 1

3:35 min.

Dustin slows his touch and Anastasia goes into deep savoring. She then begins to escalate emitting purrs, moans, bellows and screams. She becomes her orgasm.

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Sounds of Pleasure, Part 2

Sounds of Pleasure, Part 2

5:22 min.

Watch Anastasia. There are no words.

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Focus on Me

Focus on Me

3:02 min.

Anastasia speaks about the importance of separating giving and receiving for their relationship. She tells Destin as he massages her, "I like seeing you with all your focus on me."

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Four Hands on Destin

Four Hands on Destin

16:00 min.

Lovers practicing Orgasmic Yoga bring their whole relationship into their sessions. Relationship conflicts-old or new-may emerge during the giving and receiving. Both Anastasia and Destin are anxious beginning a new practice. Anastasia is concerned about her touch skills. Destin's concerned about his inability to surrender to Anastasia's touch. As the massage session begins, both get past their uneasiness. Their attention becomes focused on the sensations of giving and receiving massage. Notice how Destin participates in his massage.

Destin's Breathing

When these practice sessions were filmed, Destin was having considerable trouble breathing consciously.  The tension in his breath distracts some viewers. By watching this video of his practice session, Destin became aware of how tense his breathing was. This insight motivated him to become a breath teacher.  Destin suggests that you breath along with him but make your breath like a gentle breeze flowing in and out of your body.

Breathing is a powerful means to help you stay present in your practice. Breathing also helps keep the musculature of the body relaxed, even during high erotic states. As sexual arousal builds in the pelvic area, the breath helps circulate energy throughout the body. If you breathe a faster, up-regulating breath throughout your session, you can experience a breath orgasm similar to an erotic orgasm.

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Woman on Top

Woman on Top

16:00 min.

Anastasia makes giving touch a dance.  She loves to move and even gets up on the massage table.  It is most important that the giver enjoy the session as well as the receiver.  Giving a session on a bed is almost never comfortable for the giver. A futon or mat on the floor is much better.

Destin receives a sixteen-minute session. Most women including Anastasia would not be satisfied with a sixteen-minute session. Destin seems very satisfied.

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Anastasia and Destin's Favorite Strokes, Part 1

Anastasia and Destin's Favorite Strokes, Part 1

5:54 min.

Anastasia and Destin have chosen video of their favorite ways to touch each other's genitals. 

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Anastasia and Destin's Favorite Strokes, Part 2

Anastasia and Destin's Favorite Strokes, Part 2

4:51 min.

Anastasia and Destin demonstrate their favorite ways to touch each other's genitals.

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Penis Makeover- Foreskin Restoration

Penis Makeover- Foreskin Restoration

10:22 min.

Destin Gerek discusses and demonstrates methods of foreskin restoration.

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